Lesson 6

Lesson 6 

The law of emotional transferance. 

This lesson is a very common one in the community, and probably many of you have heard about it. It states that your emotional state can and is transfered to the people arround you, and that the emotional states of the people arround you influence your own. 

We can take two quick conclutions from this:

The first one is that you should sorround yourself with the people that usually are in the kind of mood you want to have. For example dont hang out with negative depressive people if what you want is to feel energized and happy. I know it can be hard to hear if your friends are like this, i have felt it too, but unhealthy relationships are very bad for your emotional self.

The second and perhaps more obvious one is that by being in a good mood, you will put other people in a good mood, and this will affect your approaches. Im all about training my subconcient as you would train any animal, as i personally believe we are animals just as dogs or wolves, and that gives me a very deep conection with myself. See as i understand it, our brain has 3 faces.
The older and primal one is the first and deepest one, its called the reptilian brain. It takes care of everything essential for survival, meaning all your incstincts come from this face. It signals us that we are hungry, it gives us the urge for sex. The second face of our brain is the emotional brain, called the animal brain. This one takes care of our emotions, everything we feel is asosiated with this face of our brain, and the last one is the human brain, related to rational thinking. The catch and the thing that makes this knoledge very very powerful is that there is a hierarchy between this faces, dictated by the evolutionary development of this brain faces.
 The fist one, the reptilian brain, is the most ancient one, it was developed by life formes very early on in the evolutionary time scale and is the brain that all living things share. Its the most powerful one. It has power over all the other faces.
Then comes the emotional face, developed later on in the evolution of living creatures and is shared by all animals. This brain is subject to the incstincts but has power over the last brain to develop: the rational brain. This is why we cant choose to stop breathing. You can try this yourself.
If you decide to hold your breath until you die, you will be able to hold it for a while but after some point, your body will force you to breath. This is why people that die asfixiated by water are always found to have water in their lungs: even though you rationally understand that there is no point on breathing under water, there is a primal reflex that will force you to try to breath under water and by doing that you will fill your lungs with water. Your emotions are subject to your instincts but have power over your rational mind. You can't choose to stop feeling anxiety when you approach, you can only work with it, and with that i can go back to my point: If you get a positive response with every time you approach, then app
roaching will stop being scary, as you have trained your brain to associate feeling good with that action. Its very much like feeding a dog dogcandy when you are training them.

So my advice to you in solving aproach anxiety is to always put yourself in a good mood before aproaching. The interesting thing is that you can put yourself in a good mood by aproaching too. If you want more on that pm me cuz i dont wanna get into that now.

The last thing i wanted to talk to you about is how this lesson works with lesson 5 to your favor. There is a concept that i need to introduce here: what girls call a conection.

 What is a connection? How do you know if you are having a connection with another person? For me its all about lesson 6. A connection is nothing but you projecting a sensation you are feeling to the people arround you, and those people accepting that sensation and making it their own. When you are feeling the same as other people, you are having a connection with those people. Strong feelings, like love, create stronger connections.

So how does one create those connections? By feeling something you intuitively know the other person wants to feel. For example feeling happy, feeling active. If you feel this way all the time, you will have no problem connecting with people, and people love feeling connected to another human being so you will attract people, therefore becoming attractive.

Lesson 21 actually talks about that: i learned it after having proper sex for the first time. As I was leaving her house I remember not being sure if I had gamed her or if I had just been gamed by the girl. This feeling got me to the conclusion that having good game is not about sarging successfully, it's about properly presenting her with an opportunity, and letting her play you. the key is not learning how to game her, but learning how to present the opportunity properly. See it's like the peacock, presenting his incredible tail, and if your tail is amazing enough, all the female peacocks will want to fuck your mother fucking sexy tail.


 Hope this helps

 Jason

Lesson 7

The Law of Symbiosis

Symbiosis is a term borrowed from ecology, and is used to describe a type of relationship between 2 life forms. a simbiotic relationship is one in which both life forms are beneficiated by the relationship and none are harmed by it.

Lesson 7, the law of symbiosis, states: Achive your goals through helping others ahive their own.
Its a simple guideline by which I choose to live my life by, so let's first talk about that for a second. Men, specially older and wiser, successful men, live by a code. they have a specific set of guidelines they live by, believe in, and use to define themselves and their identity as an individual.
For example, many men choose to put family first, over everything. So if there was to be an opportunity to be transferred to a better paid job, but that implied not being able to take care of his parents, seeing his son if he's divorced, etc. those men would not take that opportunity.

This exercise of setting the guidelines you choose to live by, is part of the development of your own individuality, and this are, therefore, to be set very carefully and with a lot of deep reflection upon each one.

I chose the law of symbiosis as I was taking a course in ecology, and studying about social dynamics in my free time. It states that every relationship in your life should be helpful for myself, in my journey, and it should also be helpful to the other person.

Classic example of symbiotic relationship. The bird gets free food, the crocodile gets free mouth cleaning.

This means that I will not take favors from people without being sure to give back, as I can appreciate the work people spend on me, and the time they willingly choose to dedicate to myself.

As I understand, there is only one true currency in this world, and that is time. You have a limited amount of it, and you give it it's value. See, just like every commodity in the market, your time has a price, and that price is set by how much you have worked in yourself to improve your skills, and also by how much you yourself value your own time.

With time you can do anything: learn to spell, get a job, get a degree, get power, get money. Time is the only thing that is really ours and we can turn it into whatever we want to, as long as we are willing to do the work that is necessary to transform something like time, into knowledge, material possessions and healthy relationships.

So value time. Value your time, and value the time people spend on you. Let people know that you apreciate the things they do for you, and do things for them.

This sets things for next lesson: Never expect any thanks in this life.

We will talk about that on tusday, so i hope you liked this and until then,

Jason